Monday, October 26, 2015
We Thought Our Relationship's Okay But It's Not
Monday, October 26, 2015Why? Why haven’t I been writing for quite a while and if I would, the posts would be about an event or a product discovery or a sponsored o...
Why? Why haven’t I been writing for quite a while and if I would, the posts would be about an event or a product discovery or a sponsored one. When I read my own blog the other day, I asked those questions myself. As I examined and critiqued my own digital home, I wasn’t happy about it too. I lost connection to my inner core; the heart of my blog was missing.
So what’s the reason? We were too busy about the wedding preparations that we have been forgetting to prepare OURSELVES for the true marriage. Just like any couple, it's normal for us to go through quarrels, disagreements, arguments, and whatever there is that's not synonymous to a smooth sailing relationship. We were so caught up with the stresses that we forgot to take care our our hearts and our relationship. There were pains which we caused each other along the process.
I personally coped with the help of friends, with a few diversions, with a lot of escaping and just focused on work, and he by turning to his mobile phone (COC actually) and going out with friends occasionally. It temporarily eased the burden, but I still went back to the pain, to the hating, to speaking hurtful words, and to sobbing. I thought solving the problem ourselves would do the trick. But it didn’t.
So what’s the reason? We were too busy about the wedding preparations that we have been forgetting to prepare OURSELVES for the true marriage. Just like any couple, it's normal for us to go through quarrels, disagreements, arguments, and whatever there is that's not synonymous to a smooth sailing relationship. We were so caught up with the stresses that we forgot to take care our our hearts and our relationship. There were pains which we caused each other along the process.
I personally coped with the help of friends, with a few diversions, with a lot of escaping and just focused on work, and he by turning to his mobile phone (COC actually) and going out with friends occasionally. It temporarily eased the burden, but I still went back to the pain, to the hating, to speaking hurtful words, and to sobbing. I thought solving the problem ourselves would do the trick. But it didn’t.