Saturday, September 19, 2015
Wedding Preparation Tips on Making It less Stressful
Saturday, September 19, 2015Source Stress. Happy Stress. Ngarag Stress. Excited Stress. These are the different levels of stress that I feel when wedding prepa...
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Happy Stress. Ngarag Stress. Excited Stress. These are the different levels of stress that I feel when wedding preparations are concerned. The anxieties, excitement, and pressures I feel go uphill and downhill. I don't know if this is normal, but based from brides I talked to it is. But their number one advice to me is "Just make sure you keep the stresses H-A-P-P-Y! You'll do fine. Enjoy it!"Big word(s).
Well, it's really easier said pala talaga than done. That's what I realize now. I may be a campaigns strategist who also handles events at work, but wedding is different. I'm sure most of you married women reading this would totally agree. Ako naman, while juggling my deliverables at work and home, and doing my duties to my slowed down blog (which I feel so sad about for not updating as frequently... ), I do all the research, contacting, negotiating, and scheduling of meetings with suppliers. My better half who's also busy with work would do his tasks as requested, (we all know guys could only do one thing at a time.)
So, which brings me to sharing with you some realizations and tips on Wedding Preparation:
- Set rules of engagement with better half. - Save yourself from arguments and pointing fingers when things go wrong (or even right) during your wedding day. Make sure you're all in this together,. It's not YOUR wedding alone, remember that. So a good guy fried of mine gave an advice to lay down cards with what you need and expect from each other during the preparation. There were general rules that we set like, no saying "Ikaw bahala." The decision to get this supplier or not OR to book this venue or not, should always be mutual. Tools: Constant loving communication with your husband-to-be and time.